Stephen Speaks - So Many People Lyrics

YES!!! 'Its usually not about the friend at all. Its about YOU.'

"ALOT OF WOMEN" 😂

So happy I clicked this.

The only thing I disagree about, is that being alone with the gal at home is trouble. Christianity has this notion that sex is bad, wrong, lust. But It's really not, it's natural. It's the unnatural perversions of sex that the bible is against, ie, homosexuality, adultery, prostitution. There is no couple in the bible that were punished for hetero sex alone.

Smart & Sexy man😍

This was eye opening. I took several notes. Thanks guys.

This dude just tells women what they want to hear and makes money off them. It’s a scam 🤣

Aww you sound so perfect !!

Maybe the movie that you’re referring to is ‘LoveJones’???

Great interview! The conversation flowed naturally, the questions were open ended, ground breaking dialogue, and the video actually it exceeded my expectations!!!

Good info but the hosts are annoying with all that laughter

Facts. This is what made me want my wife and ONLY her.

Damn this was so good.

Stephan, I can feel every word you say with every cell of my body.
This man is a beautiful human. Much love 💖

I love this podcast, so so so true, all of it!

It’s a very good video! The complete foundation for our young people would take for ever before to be in a relationship. Perfection don’t excise! Nothing wrong to learn your self through a relationship.

These seem like some good positive brothers.

Divinely guided to this podcast dec 29, 2019. Just before the new year. Crazy thing is I watched a short clip of this conversation at the beginning of the year, but it didn’t actually register in psyche until now. Blessings to the men in this video because as a young woman I am actually gaining things I wasn’t taught from my absent father. Definitely opens my mind up to a lot of things. Thank you guys🙏🏽

No marriage.
No commingled funds.

If you have to have a child, have one--if you have to.

I really enjoy this video. Stephan is very inspiring and knowledgeable. As a divorced woman I found this information very informative and educational. Keep teaching Stephan. We appreciate the info❤️

46:25 ...I had to realize within myself that Was my reasoning for running from a great guy to a wrong guy ... I’m so glad I realized that... Now I’m consciously continually choosing the great guy

36:55 Major Key Alert

Wow! This brother future is bright. I been with my wife for 20 great years and can relate with alot with what he is saying. The connection has to be there and men be a leader for the woman to support you and love will never leave.

Love is Lust + Infatuation, when all that gets old... It's gets replaced by a routine. And that is NOT love. That is a JOB. And since you don't get paid for being in a relationship. Its SLAVERY.

Love is for the weak. Love yourself.

That 7 day fast is what's up I've done this and my mind body and spirit felt 100x better

Every single thing he said is 100% on point. True love is completely what he is saying.

This is why I believe 90% of all relationships and marriages aren't "real." They stay together because of kids, religion, sunk cost fallacy, familiarity, afraid to leave, afraid to start over, shame, guilt, etc. It's hard to nail it right the first time if at all and in reality, there IS a too late. No we don't always get to start over and have second chances. It's not entirely our fault either... We are not taught how things really are, we are taught how things should be. We are told love is all that is needed and is all that it takes. No, many people love each other that cannot stand each other. There's more than just love: compatibility, goals, dreams, circumstances, maturity level, timing, etc. Many people don't think that far ahead. They just get with whoever they sorta kinda like or vibe with at the moment and run with it and hope for the best.

I have no idea how this showed up in my recommendations but, I'm glad I decided to press play because this is good!

Healing is most definitely the most important thing I've learned.

The discipline is the key

I totally agree with the comment at 26:00-26. Both people must "set the environment where they are open & honest about everything. That's real intimacy. At my stage in the game I have no problem rejecting a woman who does not respect upfront honesty from the 1st conversation especially about sex. He gives good points on Self-esteem at 29:15 & 46:33

so profound you aren't drawn to every one... so true!

I have a feeling all these questions were personally from dude in the purple...lol

That connection bit he's speaking of is something that is all spiritual. It already exist and cannot be destroyed just avoided. Once you've experienced this connection you'll understand the difference between love and infatuation.

I had the body weight conversation with my girlfriend last week and let me tell you........it didn’t go well. I was trying to express my concern for her health. She is boarder line hypertension and on high cholesterol-medication. She suffers from knee and hip pain. Her doctor told her if she lost weight, her health issues would go away. I am concerned about her health and the quality of her life. What should I do? Leave it alone or stand my ground.

Lead by example. 🤷🏽‍♀️

OMG, I think just like this guy Stephan Labossiere. I had never even heard of or seen him before today. I came on YouTube for a video about the difference between alpha women and beta woman and this video was like second next to play. But every single thing he said I totally agree with and think like, and I'm a female. This is just my inner code, my boundaries and requirements for men. Which is why I have been single more than I have been in relationships. Wow.

Take me as I am and no body is taking you say that again please

How do you start

One thing that's not true is that you can't have a genuine connection with multiple people at the same time. I'm a psychic empath & can instantly tell when there's a soul connection present. I know 6 guys right now that I've met within the last 10 years that I have a genuine connection with. The problem is it's always been bad timing. 3 of these guys are marred, 2 are terrified & don't want to take a chance, & the last one is locked up & had a drug problem when he was out. Something I noticed that all of these guys have in common is that they all have mommy issues (abandoned and/or neglected by their mom as a child) which makes me think that they could never be with me out of fear.

Funny how they make faith sound like something good or noble. Lol. Bluepills

It is you just want it to do what ever you want and it doesn’t work that way.

Shanell Pittman i don't want faith to do anything. Faith is an excuse to believe and hope for something with absolutely no evidence. Reason logic and science are by far superior methods to arrive to truth

Shanell Pittman i don't say so. The evidence speaks for itself.

yzagui007 evidence speaks for self yet you believe in one of the most unrealistic things we have with is science. If science was so powerful why do it Chang so much. Why do it creates so many drugs that are killing people instead of helping.

Shanell Pittman you use science to send that pitiful message. Can you send that message with faith?😢

Yess real talk school them

So many women do not understand that a relationship is a give-and-take But be the same ones wondering why nobody is staying around. Woman need to stop expecting to receive husband befits as a girlfriend

I only let the woman walk next to the street if I'm trying to break up with her...Some of y"all will catch this later...

lol their getting distracted by the movie names lol

Great words of wisdom!!

“You got to give her something to believe in”!!!!

This is the best interview ever.

Dating multiple is disgusting to say the least. Pointless, shoes you have no direction, no principals. Dating just to be dating. Just for entertainment, not for purpose

Bring it!

This episode is solid gold 👌👌👌

Ok this changed my life wow

Wow this is good

That is key ..foundation.foundation foundation...

The guest is very sexy but I disagree with him on so many things.


1. I definitely do not think that attending church and spirituality has anything to do with one another necessarily.


2. I don't even think God is a "He."



3. His assertion that you can't have a connection with multiple women is also wrong. It flies in the face of other commitments styles like polyamory or open relationships.


4. The idea that leadership has anything to do "leading" yourself to church...ludicrious.


5. The idea that you can't be driven in your career and entertain several relationships...I think he's just speaking from a limited point of view.


I think the problem with the idea of speaking for everyone is that you don't leave room for ideas that are outside of what you've been taught or conditioned to believe. I'm sure it works for some people though.

Your spirit and church are directly connected to one another you can’t have one without the other it is impossible. And if anyone tells you you can aren’t true believe.

It is a mentally and physically impossible for God to have ever been a woman unless that’s woman transgender. And being that transgender wasn’t a option in that time I don’t see how any one could have done 5 percent of that stuff.

Stephan is AMAZING. I could use his guidance. Great advice and insight on relationships.

I need to date this guy cuz the chivalry thing is literally all I want

So is soul mate and twin flame are day Real

I just stumbled on this site..Great content!!

Thought to self:

1. Hurt people, hurt people.

2. If you can’t change the people around you, change the people around you.

Wow. I teared up. This podcast and this man I know for sure has just transformed my life. I feel like a huge emotional weight has just fallen off my back. I can't describe this feeling. I'm a 21 year old woman and I'm ready to fix my life, my "foundation", and go get my life and my relationships right and healthy. Big love for all three of you guys! Keep doing what you're doing. Thank you for this space❤❤❤.

When people are open about their Christianity >

This need to be package to share in high schools. Mentoring groups. Wish this was a video available to me when I was in my teens or early 20s. Even if it is ONLY planting the seeds. Great job gentleman.

I love his mind smart man and teaching us about love it great see black smart men .strong Godly men God bless him and protect him

This is so solid and on point! The best advices ever . Thank you. Men😍

BLACKMEN R TO MUCH U CANT WIN FOR TRYING I NEED TO WEIGH MY OPTIONS ON PUERTO RICAN MEN THEY HAVE THEIR ISSUES TOO BUT THE DECENT ONES ARE ROMANTIC LOYAL & TAKE CARE OF THEIR FAMILY & WILL WIFE U BLACKMEN WANT TO USE U UP FOR YEARS & NOT PUT A RING ON IT IM AN OLDER BLACKWOMEN I C IT ALL THE TIME THATS WHY AFTER A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF TIME & THEY WONT STEP IT UP ON THEIR OWN WITHOUT U MENTIONING IT RUN DONT LOOK BACK 🏃 🏃

Why is is so hard for men to admit they are in a relationship, like these men in the beginning of the video? Real question.

khokoOO7 it’s not a he got to have the connection and the woman need to be worth keeping the relationship

My question is, what if you don’t ever feel a connection? How can you increase your likelihood to find that? It seems extremely elusive, especially when trying to look online. Lol.

Charlene Maeder zSTOP LOOKING WORK ON YOUR SELF be content with being alone. What goals do you have that you want to reach catch this is the time for you to work on your mental financial and spiritual goals

Charlene Maeder ya I see your point

Watching this video again because I first watched it when I was going thru my healing process (9 months ago). The content was clear then in terms of what I needed to do in order for this guidance to be applied, and now that I am 3-4 months healed of certain past hurts this video makes even more SENSE! So much resonates with me! Especially now because I am in a relationship with a person whom I dated over 14 years ago and back then we were so horrible towards each other because we did not have healing in our lives. Now he has healed over the years and I see HUGE changes in him and he says he has noticed SIGNIFICANT changes in my attitude toward him and how I how I react to life.....its so crazy! Stephan really knows how to convey his message/s. I am so THANKFUL for Stephan and his calling, God really blessed us all with a person like Stephan, I am living proof that healing works! Thank you :-)

Thank you guys love this segment learning so much

So good! Stephan is the relationship break-down king!!!

Some really deep red pilled advice which can be summarised in 'focus on finding yourself as a man' ; once that happens everything else will fall in place. It's apparent from the questions that those asking haven't been on that journey yet. Great dude, would love to have a chat with him

Omg can you please get him back to talk about what he thinks about this new poly relationships and being able to love more then one person in that type of relationship.

Yes, he open my door, I reach over and open his...ALWAYS... show appreciation.... always show I CARE...

Some of our people will never heal because they feel that they are together.

Great talk👍🏾 I enjoy👀

We could be in love , but it's not the right time, because he dosent address their demons.....

I’m having a blast watching this rn in my living room 😂😂👌🏿

That part about the friends of the opposite sex oooohhhh I FELT that and that's why we ain't last guess I was connected and he wasnt 🤷🏾‍♀️ oh well

Edit: Brown Sugar is my Fave 😍

Their energy is on 100 👌👌🔥🔥

Loved loved loved this!!! 🙌🏽 Truth!

Loved the podcast! So insightful. Thank you

God Bless whomever birthed and raised this KING!

Preach man of God. Enlightenment is important. Spiritual enlightenment is the best kind of enlightenment. First that wich is natural then that witch is spiritual. May God bless your ministry beloved. Because God is all about love.

Wow this is deep, I'm still in love with my ex if we see each other five years from now. Imma feel the same, hope she feel the same.

One of the things a woman can do in showing. Chivalry toward a man is to show him respect. Smile and just be sweet.

You two are so funny/real! Thank u for having the amazing Stephan Speaks on. He helps me so much and I'm a mental health counselor 🍀🦋🌿. Thank u Stephan for sharing your gifts🌈☯️☮🌻

I love this mans words. Sounds good and on point. I wonder if he actually acts as he speaks.

I LUV THIS DUDE #STEPHANE💕

I enjoyed these men blessing us with the truth

Sounds kind of like he's describing a twin flame love

THANK YOU!..This is exactly what I’ve been saying..💯

Men and women should just not deal with one another anymore like seriously. Women hate men and men are starting to heat women

Wow.. so much wisdom in this, so glad I watched it!

3rd time listening & fresh and relevant every time

38:33 🤣

Laws of the universe. Laws of attraction

A connection is recognizing your counterpart ❤❤❤

Amazing podcast!!!

Thank you all for your support and checking out this episode! Be sure to check out our previous episodes via any podcast streaming services, https://soundcloud.com/theroommatespodcast.

I don’t find the book on Amazon ?

@The Roommates Podcast Are you guys brothers? (Just out of curiosity)

Once he said love is not an action. And said that is BS. I turned it 100% off. He messed up big time there. Then had the nerve to reference the word incorrectly.

@Txt4 LIFE This episode is killing me, but I needed to hear this!!