Oingo Boingo - Out Of Control Lyrics






Everyone says, sooner or later,
You'll reach the end of the line
When things get rough
Some think it's easy to jump the ship...
You decide

I say, don't throw it away
There's about a million reasons why
Though you've heard them all before
And you're getting very tired
Lay your head on my lap
And I'll sing you this lullaby:

Don't you know
That everyone around you
Has felt the pain you feel today?
You're out of control, yeah—
And you want someone to tell you
When you wake up in the morning, it'll only be a dream
You're out of control....

There's a cloud rollin' overhead
And it seems to rain on no one else
There's a black sun casting a black shadow
And I know you feel so all alone
You're out of control—and you want the world to love you
Or maybe you just want a chance to let them know
Yeah, that you live and breathe and suffer
And your back is in the corner
And you've got nowhere to go

Nothing for nothing—everything's right at your fingertips—for a price
Who ever said that life on this planet would ever be paradise?
I say, don't throw it away; you've got too many things to say
If you throw away your life—if you throw away your life
If you throw away your life, the world will never be the same

Don't you know
That everyone around you
Has felt the pain you feel today?
You're out of control, yeah—it'll only be a dream

You're out of control—and you move without direction
And people look right through your soul
You're out of control—and you want someone to tell you:
When you wake up in the morning, it'll only be a dream
And I wish that I could tell you it'll only be a dream





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  1. c.... ....

    Oingo Boingo, one of the most incredibly unique and underrated bands of all time. It blows my mind that people don’t have this shoulder to shoulder with bands akin to Queen.

  2. J.... S....

    Good lord that voice...

  3. W.... h....

    Dark at the End of the Tunnel Take(s) Me Back to Better Dayz.
    The Who can guess all the musical references gets a Gold star for the day. 😁

  4. T.... ....

    Voz linda

  5. W.... h....

    Nope. Put your head down and weather out this storm. and leave me alone and the videos i watch alone with my wife. Tell your friends to leave me alone too.

    And i wish that when you wake up in the morning l wish that l could tell you, it'll only be a dream.

  6. J.... ....

    Who ever said that life on this planet would be paradise?

  7. S.... C....

    "You're out of control and you want the world to love you, or maybe you just want a chance to let them know that you live and breathe and suffer, and your back is in the corner and you've got nowhere to go"


    That line never ceases to make me sob

    S.... C....

    i know that feeling. You okay? Nice profile picture, it reminds me of my college days. i went to UCSC Banana Slug was our mascot.

  8. E.... ....

    1:57 who's that guy o never mind he's old now lolz i wish i looked like that now well off to Batman ~.^ ,,l,

  9. S.... O....

    What the fuck how have it not seen this video yet

  10. M.... J....

    Alguém escutando em 2018 ?

  11. P.... P....

    voice is clear and beautiful on the high side

  12. R.... L....

    Danny Elfman is such a genius.

  13. f.... c....

    what an odd video, very 80s early 90s vibe. love the song

    f.... c....

    flying cardinal that is because it was from that era you mentioned.

  14. B.... H....

    I wish anyone could tell me that it will only be a dream.

    B.... H....

    Becca Hargate It will only be a dream

  15. B.... ....

    I hear some people didn't like this song. Does anyone know why? I really like it.

  16. M.... A....

    I heard all of boingo's songs on 91X

  17. P.... C....

    All throughout the 80's I was strung out on drugs and booze big-time. Suicidal, too. Fortunately, my friends and family got me through it, and I've been clean and sober since '90. Occasionally, I still have bouts of depression, but listening to music (Joni Mitchell and Danny here, in particular) always snaps me out of it. Danny wrote a great song here, addressing a heavy subject in a beautiful way.

  18. R.... A....

    I was working at a college radio station when this came out and remember thinking that with a little promotion this song would go top 5 just like Love and Rockets' "So Alive" had. Of course, their label basically forgot it existed as soon as it was released and nothing happened, but it's still one of the best pop songs I've ever heard.

  19. D.... N....

    240p :(

  20. .... ....

    On a bad night, this song is one of few to calm me down.💜

  21. D.... M....

    Funny when multimillionaires pontificate about suicide. Give me a fucking break.

  22. l.... ....

    Is it just me, or does Danny kind of resemble Geoff Tate?

    l.... ....

    I see it, too.

  23. E.... M....

    This is amazing.

  24. R.... A....

    I remember when Danny Elfman was with Oingo Boingo years ago playing at the Living Room in Providence, RI. He's always been one of my hugest favorites!! I just really missed his great voice when he started doing musical scores for Tim Burton movies, then others, but hey -> GREAT FOR DANNY!!! I'll always love him!!

  25. R.... A....

    OMG...I'm so sorry too. Believe me, many times I wonder if this song actually saved my life too.

  26. R.... ....

    Oingo Boingo's BEST song. EVER.

  27. L.... P....

    Sing me a lullaby, Danny, with your smoothly golden voice.

  28. s.... ....

    This song literally saved my life after discovering it recently. And allmusic.com only gave this album a 5/10!

    Oh well. Always remember Danny Elfman's lyrics from the song "Imposter" about critics:

    You're just a critic, we know why you drink so much
    Jealousy slowly consuming your gut

    The streets that you never knew are just where they've always been

    Your head is firmly lodged way up your butt
    (Where it belongs)You don't believe what you write

    (You're an imposter)

    s.... ....

    seasofluck allmusic is a joke. I learned that years ago just rifling through their ridiculous reviews.

  29. S.... H....

    As an angsty teen in the 90s this song was always so soothing to me. Due to a recent injury I've been stuck in a wheelchair for 2 months and was feeling depressed today and thought I needed some Boingo in my life. Sure enough, I am feeling better!

  30. C.... P....

    Great song, I've felt this personally and this song always helped.

  31. p.... b....

    Cybil E. Taylor, I think every day of what I could have done.

    p.... b....

    The irony is that you thought it was silly of me to like this song back in 1990.

  32. J.... A....

    Beautiful Song

  33. A.... T....

    ♥✴✴✴✴✴✴✴‼▪▪▪

  34. A.... T....

    ✴✳♥❇

  35. A.... T....

    ❇✴✳♥

  36. A.... T....

    I'LL ALWAYS LOVE,  "OINGO BOINGO!!!".....YOU GUYS WILL ALWAYS ROCK!!!.....

    A.... T....

    Same here ->For sure!!

  37. D.... S....

    I think this is one of the best songs from Oingo Boingo.

    Even as a grown man it brings me back to what is real and what other people are going through like me.

    It's not worth it. If this song helps just one person thank you Danny Elfman and Oingo Boingo. This will be your legacy.

  38. A.... N....

    My cousin killed himself 10 years ago today.  I wish someone had played this song for him.

    And the worst part is I'd ask "What would make a 15 year old kill himself? but I know the answer...

    A.... N....

    I'm so sorry.

    A.... N....

    @Dotcomexec Superdude This is life.  My cousin made his choice.  we have to live with it.  Not much else we can do.

    but thank you for your concern.

    A.... N....

    OMG...I'm so sorry too. Believe me, many times I wonder if this song actually saved my life too.

  39. q.... ....

    GREAT SONG! But Danny Elfman looks totally creepy in this video. Lol... Foreshadowing his eventual selling out perhaps.

    q.... ....

    hey, he didn't sell out. he choice his hearing over live concerts. he's loosing his hearing so he retired from Oingo Boingo to preserve it.

    q.... ....

    Matt Mahurin's (the director, that is) vids all have a creepy undertone about them (for the most part). Other egs.: Metallica's Unforgiven and Unforgiven II, Alice in Chains' Angry Chair and No Excuses, etc.

    q.... ....

    qttracy26
    Rude.

  40. P.... W....

    Very good memories from this video. Me and my friends are in it. A full day of fun and good people. You can see me at 0:18 . Thanks for posting. Good memories.

    P.... W....

    Yep. :)

    P.... W....

    @Pep Williams Did you get to meet any of the band members? If so, were they cool dudes?

    P.... W....

    All good guys. Got to know them over the years.

    P.... W....

    Sweet! 😉

  41. J.... Q....

    GOOD GOD, WHY DON'T SCHOOL COUNSLERS SHOW THIS VIDEO TO KIDS ALLREADY.

    J.... Q....

    This song saved my life in high school. Life ain't all puppy dogs and rainbows.

  42. W.... J....

    AGREE!!!!

  43. T.... ....

    Danny Elfman = MUSIC GENIUS!!!

  44. v.... f....

    muito demais danny é perfeito nas musicas faz

  45. J.... P....

    how the hell does this song lose to Carly RaeJepson?

  46. M.... ....

    I've always liked Nothing to Fear the best. It sounded and felt more interesting and Oingo Boingo-like than Only a Lad (though it's pretty good too).

  47. R.... .....

    Thank heaven! SAVE ME SAVE ME DANNY SAVE MY BRAINS OUT

  48. r.... ....

    you're out of controool
    LOVE THIS

  49. J.... T....

    great tune!

  50. W.... ....

    This song always meant something special to me.

  51. K.... G....

    Used to love the Concerts, God I want a Reunion tour....I'ld give my Kidney for that and maybe an arm

  52. L.... L....

    This song basically saved me. That and Danny's face.

  53. o.... ....

    you mean the red haired god of sex..

  54. H.... ....

    You're 126? You look good! J/K. I have all the CDs and some vinyl, so have now moved on to Danny's movie soundtracks, etc. Their concerts were really crazy...lots and lots of fun! Good luck with your collecting.

  55. J.... H....

    haha same to the collection, but im 126, was born in1996 so just missed the farewell concert that i love to watch on dvd :'( i would sell my soul to see it!! hope you complete your collection, i just bought this and boingo today, only got the middle ones left :D

  56. B.... B....

    I love you Danny. Thank you for this song.

  57. A.... X....

    first albun in my life. present's congratulations my Girlfriend Fernanda 1988 all right...

  58. K.... M....

    i was once a suicidal teen,good song to relate too

  59. k.... s....

    I, Hector Herrera Jr. will always be a fan of Oingo Boingo until the day I stop breathing
    1963- hopefully 2063
    Sorry all you young folks, but our generation (The 80's)
    Had the best music of our time !!!! :0)

  60. H.... ....

    Oh, and the Farewell concert DVD, too. :)

  61. H.... ....

    Saw them in one of their Irvine Meadows Halloween concerts years ago, but just recently started collecting more of their recordings. I think I'm only up to about 6 or 7 CDs now. ;)

  62. H.... ....

    Love Danny's voice. Love him!

  63. r.... ....

    Agreed, @LoveableGit. This is incredibly beautiful :)

  64. B.... ....

    Born in 1990, just starting to get into Oingo Boingo this year

  65. B.... ....

    @redkelley I can vouch for that, born in 1990 and I got some catching up to do

  66. C.... R....

    Gene Shallots (smells like onions) gives Oingo Boingo two big thumbs-ups...

  67. C.... R....

    Danny Elfman and Oingo Boingo ... The voice is pure ... The message has conviction ... They were wierd! AWESOME to this day!

  68. C.... B....

    with vocals by Jack Skellington himself-- Danny Elfman. It's still comes as something so peculiar to me -- that among the songs im so fond of in high school's actually sung by the one who turned out to be Danny Elfman, i never knew it then right away.

  69. S.... B....

    @chrishurt95 idiot.

  70. Q.... T....

    Even though I was born in the late 90's I was raised on 80's music and Oingo Boingo is definitely one of the best bands from that time, and Danny Elfman is an amazing musician I can always tell when I'm watching a movie with his music in it!

  71. L.... B....

    @AngelusDlion You're right. They're a lost cause. I don't want them in our club anyway. *fist bumps AngelusDlion*

  72. A.... ....

    @lizismestupid would someone with that viewpoint even "Get" oingo boingo in the first place?

    And heaven forbid that they find out that the band was originally "the mystic knights of the oingo boingo"

  73. W.... N....

    @chrishurt95 What's in a name?
    Radiohead took their name from a Talking Heads song, but sound completely different.

  74. L.... A....

    Any body that cant say something good about danny dose not know the extent of his talent they have been diggin him in cartoons and movies for years and just didnt know it!!!!! Danny you rock

  75. T.... ....

    @SaintEuchrid: A bit late to this, but your suspicions are indeed correct! Matt Mahurin directed both videos.

  76. L.... B....

    @chrishurt95 If you can't look past a band's name, I feel sorry for you. You're missing out.

  77. u.... ....

    Thanks for posting this, I played the crap out of this cassette back in 1990. I took a 4-day weekend and drove out to Detroit from Connecticut to see them in concert on this tour. It was worth it.

  78. c.... h....

    its the name..oinga boingo....cant be taken seriously..

  79. J.... M....

    Marvelous song :) Sad but uplifting !

  80. a.... ....

    OMG. I love this song.

  81. p.... ....

    @BQblr Have you heard Try to Believe or (even better) Is This?

  82. R.... A....

    I had a chance to meet Danny at the Living Room in Providence, RI and I kick myself everyday for blowing this off - he's become the most respected music producer with not only Tim Burton but Chris Nolan's efforts , especially with the "Dark Night" and "Inception" with Leo DiCaprio. GREAT JOB DANNY ~ 'I'LL LOVE YOU ALWAYS!!
    X's, Robin

  83. Z.... ....

    At my High School, they showed us an anti-suicide PSA featuring this song. I seem to remember Elfman talking a bit before the song/montage began. That was late 1990, perhaps? I was stoked as I was a huge fan (although not a big fan of this album at the time).

  84. D.... ....

    Yeah, too bad it was mostly hidden in shadow, because it appears that he was looking quite fine.

  85. A.... ....

    @zartanhatesyou Having suffered through depression for all of my life, this song is hands down my favorite Oingo Boingo song.

    but that's like saying "I like chocolate ice cream more than cake."

  86. e.... ....

    Everyone says sooner or later you'll reach the end of the line
    When things get rough some think it's easy to jump the ship . . .
    You decide

    I say--don't throw it away
    There's about a million reasons why
    Though you've heard them all before
    And you're getting very tired
    Lay your head on my lap and I'll sing you this lullaby

    CHORUS
    Don't you know
    That everyone around you
    Has felt the pain you feel today
    You're out of control yeah--and you want someone to tell ..............

  87. B.... H....

    They are so freaking awesome.....and Danny is freaking sexy

  88. J.... ....

    eeewww what happened to Oingo Boingo? With their first three albums, they're one of the greatest bands of all time. This.....this is terrible.

  89. t.... ....

    Great song....the video? Not so much. nyway I am pretty sure playing this song over and over actually kept me from offing myself. Thank you, Danny Elfman

  90. M.... ....

    while i love the album this song makes we wonder what the hell were they thinking.. not that its bad its just naff for Oingo Boingo,

  91. M.... D....

    Where can I download this song?

  92. D.... ....

    The message of this video seems to be...."Don't be depressed, the Red God Of Sex is here to save you!"

  93. t.... ....

    @Geekella You couldn't be more correct! I became a fan in the early 80's, but this album is my favorite. The band evolved brilliantly!

  94. L.... ....

    I wish that the teenager from Ireland who just recently killed herself (and so many other bullied children) would have heard this song before they took their lives...

  95. N.... ....

    @ConnDevi88 Ditto.

  96. G.... ....

    man, i don't care what anyone says: this album is awesome. a lot of O.B. fans hate it cus it sounds so different from their earlier stuff. but the thing is, i love ALL of their stuff. even in their earlier works when they had the occasional mellow, lovely song, i loved it. this is an album just full of those. it's amazing

  97. G.... ....

    @AdamStabelli888 he has one of the best existing voices, in my opinion

  98. N.... B....

    Danny has such a gorgeous voice, like Adam said, he can sing his ass off.

  99. o.... g....

    WHeN YoU WaKe UP in ThE MoRninG..iT'LL OnLy Be A DREAM l(: