Domo Wilson - Becoming Myself Lyrics






People tell me that I'm
Going to hell if I don't change
That liking the same sex is wrong
And really kinda strange
That I should find a man and possibly get engaged
Find a father for my son
And live holy, everyday
But they don't understand the pain that comes with those words
Should I listen to the world? Or should I put myself first?
I remember waking up from the pain and the hurt
Several suicide attempts
Cause I didn't know my worth
Popped pills behind the wheel my life I was fighting
Thank god I'm alive! Man I was only 19
Tried to go to church, but they told me I was wrong
Didn't feel like I belonged
So I took myself home
Anxiety if I die
Will I go to heaven? Does god love me? Even though I love women?
I remember crying in my car wanting to end it all
Then I thought about my future as I let my tears fall

Fast forward I'm engaged with a son
I learned to love myself and don't listen to anyone
This is for anyone
Who just doesn't feel supported
Give yourself time
You are freaking loved and so important
If you wanna cry it out, cry it out
It's okay!
No matter if you're straight, bi, trans, queer, or gay
You are worth it and you're beautiful
You're far from the usual
Your life is, oh, so worth it because you are freaking perfect how you are

15 years old
I wrote my mom a letter
It was National Coming Out day so I felt a little better
I said, if she loves me she will accept me for who I am
So I wrote her a note and left it on her nightstand
I said
Mommy I love you
Thank you for all you've done
I just wanna say I'm gay I don't wanna hurt anyone
I hope I didn't disappoint you
I hope you don't cry
I hope you still love me even though I don't like guys
I, ran away that day and didn't come back
My mom was calling my phone
Literally back to back
I thought that she was gonna hate me
I thought she was gonna curse
I called her up that night and asked her to meet me up at a church
Crying
Tears running down my face
She told me she loved me but it was wrong to feel this way
She told me that I'm young and I was going through a phase
That I should change my ways and that my life would be ok

Fast forward I'm engaged with a son
She loves her and my son
She's my supporter number one
This is for anyone
Who just doesn't feel supported
Give yourself time
You are freaking loved and so important
If you wanna cry it out, cry it out
It's okay!
No matter if you're straight, bi, trans, queer, or gay
You are worth it and you're beautiful
You're far from the usual
Your life is oh so worth it because you are freaking perfect how you are

Fast forward I'm as happy as can be
I'm gay and I'm proud! And I can finally be me
This is for anyone
Who just doesn't feel supported
Give yourself time
You are freaking loved and so important
If you wanna cry it out, cry it out
It's okay!
No matter if you're straight, bi, trans, queer, or gay
You are worth it and you're beautiful
You're far from the usual
Your life is oh so worth it because you are freaking perfect how you are

You are freaking perfect how you are





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  1. T.... L....

    This song was me but instead of being Gay I'm BI. Also, not able to drive but wheel for me was in the bathroom. I have been by sense I was 7 and now I'm 13 and I don't care how they feel now. I don't listen anymore! You are feaking prefect how you are💞💞💞💞

  2. K.... 4....

    When I was listening and singing this song I started to cry cuz no in my family understand what happens to most people like and my brother and fake friends use this against me.

  3. S.... S....

    Every time I listen this song, it makes me cry
    I am BI.

  4. C.... ....

    God died for our sins, therefore he has as well died for all of us Homosexual. Bi Pride, and no one, and I mean no one will ever tear me down for it. STAND UP for you shit. You don't have to deal with it.

  5. A.... S....

    I want to cry it out ;-;
    Such a beautifull song

  6. J.... L....

    Who listen to this in october/november/december 2019?🙏🏽

    Thank you, that this song exist, it helps me trough a really hard time?

    J.... L....

    ✊🏾🏳️‍🌈

  7. C.... ....

    Lily’s and daisies is a song that IS EXACTLY THE SAME AS THIS...not sure what came first tho

  8. I.... M....

    This song is not on Pandora anymore 😭😭😭💔

  9. K.... J....

    My favorite song I wish she would’ve kept it on Apple Music 😢

  10. H.... H....

    I love this song❤️❤️

  11. S.... L....

    I'm so sax she deleted it

  12. J.... S....

    This song speaks to me🌈😭

  13. D.... K....

    I’m still listening to this I’m bisexual but I’ve never gotten bullied for it because I hang around the right people who understands me and some of them are also in the +LGBTQ community💓‼️

  14. E.... w....

    I’m bi and proud❤️

    E.... w....

    My daughter is also

    E.... w....

    qwerty 2 thats great love to your Daughter❤️

    E.... w....

    I told her whomever or whatever makes her happy she is proud of being different and pan I am proud of her

  15. M.... M....

    To all the people who think God made us straight, and we made *ourselves* gay, bi, les, etc:

    He made us how we are. It's not our fault. If you wanna go make fun of someone because they're different, take a look at yourself. What about you? Heck. For all you know, that person you made fun of? They might be depressed, or suicidal, or they may have problems at home. So who are you to judge? You are who you are, and people should respect that.
    If you have friends that dont accept you, then are they true friends? As me being bi, I know how it feels. How hard it is just to wake up, and face life. But that doesn't mean no one cares. I care! And I accept everyone no matter what their problem is. I'm sorry if you are annoyed at this, but it's my opinion, and I'm here to say it.

    ~❤🏳️‍🌈❤~

  16. J.... G....

    I play this at the lowest possible volume bc my parents would probably kick me out if they found out I’m bi

    J.... G....

    Jen Gum hay can I help

    J.... G....

    Aj Koldd I don’t think I’ll get tell them they’re super catholic but thanks man:/

    J.... G....

    Jen Gum you can tell them I am pretty sure they’ll love you for you can we talk somewhere else and can you tell other about me I Am starting a business and helping all the gay people and all the bi people that need help to come out we can do this trust me here’s my number 3134523104 text me let’s talk there

  17. L.... A....

    The song I never knew I needed

  18. R.... M....

    I really love dis song it always makes me feel better Everytime 😍

  19. S.... C....

    I’m proud and loud to be gay 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  20. D.... L....

    "even though I don't like guys," now all of a sudden she's liked guys all along? ole girl is just confused.

    D.... L....

    Boiiiii. This was her story. I'm bi and Ppl should accept you. God made you a way that you can express that your not the only one... So if you don't want to accept ppl. Just don't say anything. Ok?? 👍👍✨k, that's what I thought. Estupida. 🤣🙄I love you domo. If ppl don't accept you just don't listen. ❤️😘

  21. m.... s....

    Who is listining in 2019

  22. q.... r....

    I cried its so sad

  23. e.... ....

    it may not apply to me but I’m in love with this song😫💓

  24. M.... M....

    OMG THIS SONG CHANGED MY LIFE I WAS GETTING BULLIED AND I STILL AM GOING THROUGH I TOUGH TIME THIS SONG IS AMAZING💙

  25. C.... A....

    😍😍😍😍

  26. T.... H....

    I’m a lesbian, but I don’t know how to come out to my family bc they don’t believe in that kind of stuff and it hurts bc I can’t be myself around my own family. What do I do?

    T.... H....

    i havent came out yet either but wait for the right time

    T.... H....

    TØP_Killjøy idk when the right time is you know

    T.... H....

    @Tayler Helms There's never going to be the "right time". Even if your parents don't believe in it/don't accept it, just know there's so many people who can help you. People online, therapists, etcetera. It's better to know and love yourself than have other people's acceptance, of course you want it, but its not always going to be there. Basically, tell them soon. If they don't accept it there's people who can help.

    T.... H....

    AccaliaPlayz I know it’s just so hard

    T.... H....

    Hay can I help

  27. A.... B....

    I have a ? is it true that her and Crissy broke up ?? Cause they were like a great couple and great parent to there child ❤️💓😍😭

  28. J.... P....

    Not happening I am not ready

  29. A.... H....

    im not gay but this song touched my hard but it goes alot with my family problems because i lost my family when i was 3 and now im 13 and im getting adopted soon and this song is amazing

    it also touched my heart because im fat and People tell me that i'm Going to hell if I don't change and i have tryed to kill myself and selfharm and i heard this song and i kind of feel better

    A.... H....

    Don't listen to ppl. You are not fat.. You are perfect just the way you are.. ❤❤😇😇

  30. t.... p....

    That sad 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  31. o.... M....

    This song touch my heart 💎💍💙💎💖

  32. m.... B....

    My dad disowned me im lesbian

    m.... B....

    aww poor baby :(

    m.... B....

    Get your ass over here I'm going to adopt you-

  33. C.... K....

    I love this song xxxx

  34. J.... a....

    Love yourself for who u are, I'm bisexual and I have been bi since I was 7 and I didn't learn to accept myself for who I was until I was 11 and now I'm 13.

    J.... a....

    Janell and Danyell I have been getting bullied and I’m just so tired of it !

  35. S.... A....

    Amazing song love it

  36. S.... R....

    I feel mad lost idk what I am im so lost and hurt if you think u can help me my Instagram is @thechoiceyoumade if you don't have that I have kik also it is beyonceblueivycart

    S.... R....

    Simone Rock hay can I help

  37. m.... a....

    Ever since I showed this. To my dad he has been accepted b❣️

  38. m.... t....

    I wanted to kill myself for being a lesbian and my girlfriend sent me this


    thank god

    m.... t....

    Don't do it

    m.... t....

    I'm happy that ur girlfriend sent u the song. And its true, u are perfect how u are and u should accept yourself for who u are, and u should love yourself for who u are

    m.... t....

    I just finally told my parents about me my mom took it more but the girl makes me happy

  39. O.... T....

    Great job

  40. d.... S....

    This make me want to take back what i said to gay people im sorry to all those gay people out there 😢 i should accept you for who you are no matter what 👊

    d.... S....

    Thank you for saying that now lets see if we can make the world more accepting of the LGBTCOMMUNITY🌈 !!!
    Love you ALL ❤
    we stand together

  41. J.... M....

    Yoooooo😭😍I cried

  42. J.... M....

    MY BROTHER JUST TOLD ME SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!!! He said...you can have two moms and thats okay you can have two dads and that's okay! I mean we have 2 dads 2 moms and our other bubba Alex has 3 dads right? So what's wrong with that?
    I LAUGHED SO HARD BECAUSE He doesn't understand its because of a bunch of divorces😂😂😂 but its kinda sweet at the same time

  43. A.... I....

    YASSS QUEENN PREAACHHH GIRLLL PREACHH

  44. M.... T....

    This is a very good song I love it

  45. R.... H....

    U are such a freaking good person I love u even know I don't know u

  46. R.... H....

    I love this song

  47. S.... R....

    Domo keep making music you can go so far

  48. K.... P....

    Whoever hates on this song you should feel a shamed 🙁🙁 I m straight but the people that are not this is very Inspiring and I love you domo and crissyyy 😍😍😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🙃

  49. K.... P....

    AMEN DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE GOD LOVES EVERYBODY 👼🙏🙏

    K.... P....

    Thank you

    K.... P....

    @Ivory White np

    K.... P....

    😍😍😍

  50. i.... ....

    People like me are Bi and it makes other people feel a certain way when you tell them and id go home and cry but then when this song came out i felt better about my appearance because God made me this way and im not going to change no matter what people sag and i feel strong after hearing this song

    i.... ....

    Dude when I told people I'm Pans all the girls looked at me like I was hitting on this whole time and one of my friends was like *Hey do you like me?* And I was like _I'm sorry I have standards_ LIKE EXCUSE ME?

    i.... ....

    @Dhettt I'm sorry 🤣🤣🤣 That's really funny. Christians are always saying shit like *That's a sin* It may be but if god has a plan don't you think he meant for us to be like this? He made us perfect in his own image. So what we're into both genders. Some people are out in the world having sex at age 13 or 14 but yet they are not persecuted in church but gays are? So if you don't mind, kindly piss off mate

    i.... ....

    Same I came out when I was 11 and a year later and people still make fun of me, judge me, and out me in front of whoever.

    i.... ....

    @Dhettt first of all god didn't created people to be straight either and nobody created each other to bisexual gay lesbian or straight is because of hormones which you have feelings other people with the same sex opposite sex or both sexes and you can't control on who you like and it how you feel you can't anything about it and it not mental illness and you can't be confused on who you like and well you can't change people people change themselves

    i.... ....

    and the bible never said that marriage is between a men and a women well it did say it in the bible but it also said that it can be between one men and multiple wives even though polygamy is illegal

  51. D.... ....

    If you wanna cry it out,
    Cry it out,
    It's okay
    #lgbtq+💕🌈
    Love your color,gender,size,and beliefs.
    YOU are far from the usual
    #TEAMDOMO4LUFE

  52. D.... ....

    My favorite part is fast forward.You can't tell what your future holds.but it will be great

    D.... ....

    Dorothy Mccoy me to I replay and replay that part

  53. s.... g....

    Omg..I can't stop crying😢😢😢😧😧😧😧😧😟

  54. A.... ....

    i love this song

  55. L.... E....

    A very great song. I love it.

  56. K.... B....

    I love you how you are

    K.... B....

    I love you how you are dowo

  57. R.... E....

    obessed😍😍😍😍😍

  58. M.... H....

    I love this song