Anberlin - Alexithymia Lyrics






Don't try to wake me up
Even if the sun really does come out tomorrow
Don't believe anything you say
Anymore, in the morn, in the morning
Bricks to this old house are breaking
Steel would have weathered but now forlorning
It's alarming how loud the silence screams
No warn, no warn, no warning
Addictions fill the table where the family used to sit
And conversate
Conversate to the sounds
To the sounds of a record player
With it's jumping needle and the lights that grow dim over time

With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive
With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive

Are you where you thought you'd be
So beautiful and only twenty-three
Opposition rests in the hearts
With no, with no, with no opportunity
It's not that we don't talk
It's just no one really listens and honesty fades
Like a politician lost in the course
All smiles and no one remembers our names

With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive
With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive
With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive
With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive

Don't try to wake me up
Even if the sun really does come out tomorrow
Don't believe anything I say
Anymore, in the morn, in the morning

With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive
With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive
With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive
With downcast eyes
There's more to living than being alive





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  1. L.... H....

    This takes me back lol was 16 blasting this in the car, makes me feel old

    L.... H....

    Haha! I remember those days too.

  2. S.... V....

    Still a great track in 2019!!

  3. D.... B....

    How are ppl confusing this song for reclusion?!’

  4. N.... J....

    This song needs more views

  5. X.... ....

    alexithymia i had this feeling sometimes, but i regret it in the end of the day. That's stupid tho.

    X.... ....

    Its a disorder resulting from extreme physical or emotional trauma. Not your passing emotional fancy

  6. N.... E....

    Only thing remotely alexithymic to me is the line "there is more to living than being alive". Other than that this sheds no light onto alexithymia. Basically imagine a world where your bodily sensations weren't emotions. Emotions are only logical experiences with no bodily sensations associated with them. It's like being blind or deaf yet unaware. Once you realize this then you realize that there is more to living than being alive.

    N.... E....

    Such a great comment, point. Does more for the description of alexthymia very quickly than the song or wiki.
    Maybe the lyrics are full of only descriptions where otherwise emotions would have been triggered, conveyed..? I know I'm not afflicted since even just looking at a record player can make me so nostalgic I could cry... here, a glance just results in a blase' description...but being alarmed by silence; describing the alarm at it right there invalidates the whole experience as true alexthymia.
    Good point, it's a catch 22 in itself and I've always kinda found that interesting, if not maybe insulting to those who cannot describe what it feels like. Only thing the song got right, maybe..? In not being able to expose or shed any light on the disorder, the song in itself has lost emotional connection to those it's title alludes to.

    N.... E....

    that moment when you look at your old fb posts and your like why did i post this song and the other one by Anberlin then you decide to listen to it and your like o thats why this song and the other one are pretty good then i was like Alexithymia what is that and i looked it up and read the wiki got back here and read yalls comments and was like o yall basically had the definition already down

    N.... E....

    Emotions can be physical. Have you ever felt like you were out of shape? Like you were more lonely than you bargained for? Emotions can be expressed through Eros love.

  7. C.... F....

    I miss 2007

    C.... F....

    same here

    C.... F....

    Same bro

    C.... F....

    We need to build a time machine

  8. I.... E....

    damn this song brings back some old feels

  9. E.... C....

    NUNZIA DAN SEMPRE MARCANDO PREÇENSA OBRIGADO

  10. S.... W....

    So beautiful and only 23!!!!

  11. P.... M....

    If you didn't monetize what is not yours, that would be great.

  12. v.... ....

    not for me it isnt

  13. v.... ....

    is that a problem?

  14. E.... W....

    CONVERSATE IS NOT A WORD. ERMAHGERD

  15. T.... ....

    That's ok mate all good :)

  16. T.... L....

    I didn't mean to sound like a douche.

  17. T.... ....

    And yet itunes the CD say other wise? but I shall look it up, not trying to troll just wondering thts all

  18. T.... L....

    you're the wrong song!

  19. T.... L....

    Look up the lyrics for this song and follow along. You'll see why you're wrong.

  20. T.... ....

    This is Reclusion not Alexithymia.. both from the same album (cities) and both good songs :)

  21. C.... ....

    wrong song

  22. S.... B....

    I dont have any sicknesses and never really thought about it and then i read the comments on this song on feel so bad :,(

  23. O.... T....

    I actually suffer from Alexithymia and Dysthymia...it's hard.

  24. A.... ....

    EGO DEATH causes Alexithymia

    dammit :(

    fuck drugs

  25. J.... M....

    Looks that way jackass.

  26. S.... W....

    Oh, good, I was hoping it was infection. :P

  27. m.... ....

    Same here.

  28. m.... ....

    Yup. Tragic, isn't it?

  29. M.... H....

    life aint easy

  30. S.... W....

    Ooh yeah! I love this song! It mak me fell goid litening to it.

  31. O.... T....

    conversate might not be a word, but it is beautiful slang:)

    O.... T....

    It…is…a word😐

  32. O.... T....

    @TheRealDman765 they also have poetic license to write what they please, considering the fact that they are paid to do this.

  33. S.... W....

    I have Alexithymia, if your still wondering that is.

  34. L.... L....

    adoro essa musica...

  35. h.... ....

    Calligaris me trouxe aqui hehe

  36. x.... ....

    72/100.
    Didn't think I was that definitively Alexithymic. huh.

  37. B.... ....

    nooo, i didn't mean it literally was just saying that i agree haha

  38. K.... &....

    clearly no (at least technically). It sort of slang, and it could become a real word, but it's not. The proper verb is "converse".

  39. A.... A....

    clearly you didn't check before you posted this, it appears in basically every dictionary.

  40. K.... &....

    whoever wrote this song clearly doesn't know that "conversate" isn't a word.

    K.... &....

    Yeah it is

  41. J.... D....

    Alexithymia - Difficulty describing feelings to other people.

  42. S.... H....

    haha xDD

  43. l.... ....

    that doesnt prove shit. I love this song btw, ur comment was just retarded

  44. C.... ....

    People get them mixed up because of itunes i brought reclusion of them thinking it was reclusion but it was alexithymia i was like wait what so then i had to purchase alexithymia to get reclusion and rename them both.

  45. P.... ....

    People with alexithymia are people that have trouble with experiencing, expressing, and describing emotional responses.

  46. R.... L....

    I agree, but that was how I got confused initially

  47. S.... R....

    To all who say this is Reclusion...
    You're sick, sick as all the
    Secrets that you deny
    Sins like skeletons are so very hard to hide
    You're sick, sick as all the
    Secrets that you deny
    Sins like skeletons are so very hard to hide
    THOSE are the catchy lyrics to Reclusion. The song in the video is Alexithymia. I have no idea how people confuse the two.

    S.... R....

    Steven Rogers because it was downloaded in to the library wrong

  48. T.... ....

    i love playing the drums to this

  49. R.... L....

    itunes calls this reclusion

  50. J.... Y....

    I. FUCKING. LOVE. THIS. SONG.

  51. R.... R....

    No, haha! This IS Alexithymia, Reclusion is number nine. I have the album too.

  52. A.... F....

    "Don't believe anything you say in the morning" yeah, cuz most people are half-asleep in the morning. No offense. I love Anberlin. My favorite band(: (:

  53. K.... ....

    Did you just take both top comments?

  54. K.... ....

    Now I know what it's called! Thank you~!

  55. A.... ....

    This is my theme song this year...

  56. B.... ....

    Oh my, i did as well :S oops

  57. D.... F....

    did you just respond to your own comment?

  58. V.... P....

    I use to have a very unstable personality now that I think about it.

  59. B.... ....

    tell me about it! :)

  60. T.... M....

    lmao! loads of em!

  61. g.... ....

    @dennalilly

    Technically it's not a disorder. Also, instead of referring to a personality trait it can also refer to the temporary state of being unable to describe your emotions, which is probably what the song is referring to.

  62. B.... ....

    Really does bring back loads of memories :)

  63. S.... L....

    So beautiful and only 23 ♥

  64. a.... ....

    No matter how my day turns good or bad this song makes it better.

  65. l.... ....

    I hope that everyone can find the perfect song for themselves. I found mine. My music soulmate <3<3<3 =w=

  66. i.... ....

    @ramsrider14
    watch my top 25 anberlin songs :)

  67. R.... M....

    BEST. SONG. EVER.

  68. M.... F....

    @nerd who make comments about raping the replay button, do you only rape it because this is the only song you like?

  69. D.... E....

    @cmdrSTARSCREAM that is odd, i thought this was alexithymia. but if itunes has it mixed up, i dont know anymore either.....

  70. c.... ....

    @MrGermandel According to iTunes, this is Reclusion.

  71. c.... ....

    @fredfredburger06 my guess is that there's been a problem with one of the major downloading sites. My friend first downloaded this album and Reclusion and Alexithymia had their titles mixed up. However, even major legit music stores like iTunes have this song listed as Reclusion. I'm not sure any more.

  72. F.... ....

    413956 views, 23 dislikes. Yup, one more proof that this song is epic.. Not just epic, perfect *-*

  73. A.... B....

    @DezimatorGPC Cause there's only so many epic people like us in this world

  74. D.... E....

    this is Alexithymia. thank you very much.

  75. a.... ....

    @anubisnave *alexithymia*

  76. a.... ....

    how do ppl mix this up with reclusion? they are both amzingly different?
    not at all the same.. and ppl must not realize what alexithmia means? then they would never mix them up.. so for those of you who want to be able to remember i fyou have trouble heres the meaning of the name.. here is the meaning..

    alex·i·thy·mia definition
    Pronunciation: /ə-ˌleks-i-ˈthī-mē-ə/
    Function: n
    : inability to express one's feelings

    look it up if you don't believe me

  77. S.... ....

    @thdl1993 Then my class must be epic, because they played A Whisper and A Clamor during gym this year.:)

  78. H.... K....

    <3 Anberlin

  79. T.... S....

    @Xenohn wow such a douche.......

  80. A.... ....

    @thdl1993 Thanks ;)

  81. r.... ....

    @CurseMark4Life its a misprint on itunes reclusion is alexithymia

  82. C.... ....

    I have the album downloaded and there is different song that has this exact name. What's up with different music, but same song? O.o

  83. T.... d....

    @DezimatorGPC

    Because only epic people can listen to epic song ;)

  84. N.... ....

    This song introduced me to Anberlin. Needless to say, it was a great intro to a great band!

  85. O.... ....

    Fuck everything else besides anberlin, and marijuana

  86. J.... D....

    @celtjmg I might have lol'd a little too hard at your comment.
    Also, who wouldn't agree to the therapy? ;)

  87. m.... ....

    it wasnt twilight........its vampire diaries

  88. R.... H....

    ima get alexithymia by listening to how awesome anberlin is but the words cant express it

  89. L.... ....

    @Kzar5678 Thats a good comment, i looked it up and found it interesting

  90. K.... ....

    @Hekedotcom sure why not its not very well known might as well increase awareness

  91. K.... ....

    Thumbs up if you know that Alexithymia is an actual disorder

  92. J.... ....

    Raping the replay buttion like hell

  93. J.... S....

    Are you where you thought you'd be? So beautiful and only 23.

    I love this song.

  94. R.... ....

    Lol whoever thinks this song is reclusion is really really stupid, reclusion sounds way different than this song

  95. s.... ....

    this guy can sing i tell you

  96. B.... P....

    @joshmoore I agree, iTunes is terrible. Worst mistake of my life.

  97. M.... C....

    @samablood
    I know right? jeez.....

  98. C.... P....

    They deserve SO much more recognition than what they get.

  99. S.... ....

    ANBERLIN IS MY LIFE <3 THEM EPIC !"!